A retired financial planner’s advice to a family: “Live a little now”
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In a recent newsletter, a reader asked for help in distinguishing between craziness and necessities. I want to share two of your answers because they illustrate how personal finance should come from the heart as well as the brain.
This reader and her family are trying to fine-tune their household budgets to balance necessities, savings and fun. Specifically, she wondered if fixing the steps in her house and new mattress toppers for her children’s beds were a necessity or a luxury expense. The consensus was that more comfortable bedding for children is a necessity, and that repairing front steps is also necessary because it helps maintain the value of the family home.
Some comments from Peter Hambly, a retired financial planner in Hanover, Ont., Added some emotional depth to the discussion. Some of his points:
- âWe have postponed a lot of home improvements (mostly needed). It was a mistake. Get your home the way you want it, ASAP, for fun and convenience.
- âIn our case, to start over, we would live more for today instead of worrying about the future. It may not be typical.
- “Yes [this reader] has children at home, live a little now. These relationships and memories might not be recovered later.
I asked Mr. Hambly if the pandemic had influenced his thinking. âThe pandemic has had no effect,â he told me by email. âI realized, thinking over and over again, that many financial decisions made before were difficult to understand after the passage of time. “
Now let’s move on to a disciplined and rational approach to budgeting, courtesy of insolvency trustee Linda Stern. Among the monthly expenses listed by the reader who asked about the follies was a payment on a consolidation loan to pay off various debts.
âAs a trustee, in my opinion, the debt should be paid off before vacation and RRSP savings,â Ms. Stern wrote.
Some thoughts from other readers
- Set up a monthly savings plan for home maintenance projects like front steps
- Consider Registered Education Savings Plans for Children
- Contributions to the group retirement savings plan to which this reader has access at work are essential because of the likelihood of matching employer contributions.
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Editor’s Note: This article has been corrected to refer to registered education savings plans and not registered retirement savings plans.
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